It is with such sadness, when souls come back to us in the spiritual realms after their journey on the Earth plane, to see them so heartbroken and sad because they did not tell someone they cared and they loved them. They had worked too hard and neglected their loved ones. It has to be seen to be believed.
Each one of you on the Earth plane has no idea of what unhappiness is created by souls who did not say what they wanted to do when on the Earth plane. You are so wrapped up in the Self, in your own lives that you never think to express yourself to others, never think to tell them how much you love them, and never realize how much they need to be told the things you never said. It is too late once you return home. It is too late once you are gone, for you cannot go back and undo what you have done in not speaking your truth.
How many times have you wanted to say something to someone but have been unable to because your Self, your fear of rejection, ridicule, or your lack of confidence in speaking your truth will not allow you to do so. We watch these souls constantly. Death very often comes suddenly, and when it does, it gives no chance for a word of comfort or love. A soul can be slowly passing and still not say the words it would like to say. The Self does not allow this.
Let your life be a celebration – do not be afraid to say the words you want to say. Express your feelings before you pass over. Do not leave it until you have passed over and then have regrets. We allow so many souls to come back to say they are sorry to their loved ones, to whom they have not expressed their feelings of love or affection.
Life is very short. It may seem long, but one day you will be on our side of the veil, and if you have not expressed your feelings to those around you, you could be one of those wishing to return through a channel to say they are sorry for not expressing themselves. Do you want to be one of those? If you do not, then express your feelings, let people know how much you care, even though they may not do the same to you, it does not matter. What matters is that you say and express your truth quietly so that you can come home to us and be at peace. That is what that matters!