Sex and Sexual Energy!

In a lot of cases, when I mention sex or sexual energy to a client, that word evokes a great deal of energy, usually their faces turn red, their aura becomes very unbalanced, they often cannot look at me direct and look to the floor, or to the side, anything but engage me directly.

It is such a shame because there is nothing more important than sexual energy in our lives. Whether metaphysical or not, sexual energy and how we use it is an important factor in our lives today. Just 50 years ago, very few people had heard of the chakra system, today many more know about it than did then, and the advent of shops selling toys for sexual pleasure have sprung up in numerous stores and on line. It is no longer hidden like it used to be; one can buy erotic novels on Amazon, and sex toys also. Yet, very few of us allow ourselves to be pleasured or pleasure our self personally. As one who was once a very prudish person and had very little knowledge about sex, I know it is not practiced more widely because it is considered a taboo subject. Alan and I went to the cinema recently to see the film “Fifty Shades of Grey”. We went to an afternoon matinee and were completely surprised to see most of the audience made up of mature women, many past menopause, and the odd husband with a walker or impediment, but they were there and I wondered all through the film, what people were thinking as some of the scenes were pretty explicit and what some with a conditioned outlook on sex would probably term raunchy!

We have come a long way in the last 50 years, but for those on the metaphysical/spiritual path, sexual energy is most important, even more so if one is sensitive, or an empath. Our body has an incredible amount of meridians, and 7 major ones known as chakras; these chakras are the clearinghouse for our emotions and blocked energy. We all channel energy 24 hours a day; some people, in fact most people, carry an enormous amount of energy from past lives also. When the chakras are blocked we become lethargic, we can have no motivation to do anything, become depressed and even physically ill. One common perception is if we do not have a partner, we cannot release the energy in the chakras; this is incorrect. Unfortunately self-pleasuring, especially for boys, is looked upon by most parents as “wrong.” They are often told it is “dirty” that they could go blind, or even worse things could happen to them. When in fact if they do not release the blocked energy it CAN cause health problems in later life. Women who pleasure themselves are often looked upon as abnormal or sexually driven.

There are seven major chakras, one at the crown of the head right on top, one in the middle of the eyes on the forehead, one at the throat, then the heart, one in the solar plexus area, one around the naval area and the final one at the base of the spine, known by most people as the base chakra. These chakras on a metaphysical/spiritual level are doorways that allow the energy to flow through our body; the energy comes in through the crown chakra and travels through the body down to the base. If one of these chakras is blocked, it can cause serious problems in our glandular (endocrine) system.

We channel energy from the spiritual realms all the time, even when asleep, in fact the higher in vibration/consciousness you become, the harder it becomes to sleep at night. One can become like a jack-in-the-box, over wired with energy! The problem with this is the fact we cannot see the chakras, nor can we feel them. Certain people such as healers, clairvoyants, mediums, can either see or feel them, but it is not something all people do. As I stated earlier, the way one can know if a chakra is blocked is by the way they feel; tired, lethargic, depressed etc., and many do not know they are blocked!

The chakras need to be kept open all of the time. There is no time limit on sexual energy, I am 68 years old and still have an active sex life. One woman who came to see me over her sexuality was 80; her 85-year-old husband would no longer have sex with her or use a vibrator to help her achieve release. She had never released herself on her own, so I ended up counseling her about doing this. Florence Henderson the TV actress, recently announced what kept her so young and vibrant was at 80+ years old, her sexual life. She also was not married, and had a number of men who pleasured her when she needed it.

I cannot stress again how important our sexual energy is to us, and it needs to be used. Let go of embarrassment and fear! If you are a single woman, set up a special place where you can pleasure yourself; light candles, have some nice music playing, it does not necessarily need to be relaxation or metaphysical music. What turns you on? For me if alone, which is very rare, Michael Buble does it for me. Where a man usually can only have one or two orgasms, women can have many, so really clear those chakras out and enjoy the pleasurable sensations it gives you.

For men, it is so normal for them to masturbate. I was once shown what it felt like to be a man for a day, quite an incredible feeling; I had all the sensations men have, and came away after the experience understanding so much about men and their sexual energy. I was relieved at the end of the day though when the sensations subsided, I really am glad I am not a man, LOL!

There are some wonderful books and DVD’s on using sexual energy, sexual pleasuring etc., on-line stores like Amazon can supply all you need, as do other stores on the Internet. I was asked the other day what the difference between a vibrator and a dildo is; usually a vibrator is used outside of the body and stimulates the clitoris, whereas a dildo is mainly used internally. If the subject embarrasses you, begin reading about it, and slowly try and remove any emotions attached to it. God gave us a body with very sensitive organs, our sexual organs, but most of us do not use them, or allow anyone else to do so either, but the pleasure can be amazing! If you want to remove spiritual blocks in your body, raise your consciousness/vibration, then you need to release the sexual energy. I can guarantee the more you allow the energy in your base chakra to be released, the better you will feel, the younger you will feel, people will comment on your youthful appearance, and you will come alive after having a pleasuring session.